From my own personal experience marriage in today's society isn't all that great. Too many marriage end in divorce. Many men and women are cheating on their spouses.
When I see people who are getting married now. I see a lot of people getting married to their high school girlfriends or still dating their high school girlfriends from 3-4 years ago. This is really, really strange. Because this really shouldn't be the norm. Guys who are dating other girls in their college or else where are still having the same problem. They just can't get any girl because the dating market is shit.
I had been in a relationship where if I was depressed about the terrible dating market I would have probably married her even though it would not have been the best for me. I could have seen myself cheating because I was missing a sexual component that I had never experienced before. A friend of mind went back to dating his ex because wasn't able to get any girls to go out with him. He's settling right now.
It's so fucked up because I see a lot of guys settle. I see a lot of girls dating alright guys who should probably be dating some one else. It's just fucked up because guys can't get dates, women can't get decent dates, and the only people who are having any sort of positive reaction from this are the people who want unattached sex.
Not that there's anything wrong with unattached sex, it's just that some of us prefer attached sex for various reasons. Yet it's just so hard to get a relationship if you aren't talking to everyone and making a huge amount of friends. It's a very slow process and even slower when ladies refuse to help move the relationship along in the first stages.
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