Dating in today's society.

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Dating in today's society is pretty rough. Though from my point of view ie. an intelligent, introverted college student who needs to get out more, things might be a little skewed. A lot of people claim to be intelligent. But really, intelligence fucks a lot of things up. Ladies don't want to argue with an intelligent guy who has logically answered your question before you asked it. Not to say that I'm that kind of person, it's just that I can easily formulate a counter point to a disagreement I have from my own point of view that I thoughtfully break down to logical fundamentals. So what this looks like in real life, specifically high school when attended by a fairly happy introvert looks something like this:

Her "Hi."
Me "Hi."
Her "Are you new around here?"
Me *returns to work* "Yeah. Why?"
Her "Just wondering."
Me "Oh, OK."

Looking back I realize that had a actually pushed myself to not be so introverted I would have quickly realized that this was probably code for, "Wanna fuck?". But of course that's not what's explicitly defined here. An intelligent person looks at the context and makes a judgement. From that they can conclude the underlying sexual interest. However that assumes they have social experience, know how to use experience to break through the possibility of simple interest. All of which requires a non complacent introverted world view. Or simply an extroverted personality in this situation.

All of which are hard to obtain since introverted people don't just change to extroverted people without a lot of work.

Even today I find it just as hard to get to these underlying possibilities. Partially because that would require some sort of empathy factor with the people around me. I don't have such a thing because I do not identify myself with those around me. Being different then everyone I identify with few people. So thus I am left with apathetic approach to an empathetic, emotionally driven problem, wherein the desired outcome is an emotional involvement with a 3rd party all the while attempting to remove or pretend the apathy doesn't exist. Yet I continue to do this because it's lonely to be different.